Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Some People, and Other People

Some people refuse to get along with other people, and some people and other people always want to put one person in the middle.  One person used to fall for that all the time, and that one person always felt responsible when some people didn't get along with other people, but then one person learned that if some people refuse to do what it takes to get along with other people, then there is nothing one person can really do about it.  Some people are stubborn as mules, and other people are, too.  Some people just can't see eye to eye with other people.  Some people have the illusion that they are doing everything they can to try to get along with other people, and other people think they are bending over backwards and making concession after concession with some people.  But in reality neither some people nor other people are doing what it takes to resolve their differences.  One person has gotten to the point where one person can just distance one person's self emotionally, shrug one person's shoulders, and refuse to accept responsibility any longer.  But then, once in a while, some people have particularly big issues with other people and then one person starts getting angry and upset all over again.  Then one person gets in a huge funk.  Sometimes some people and other people are so caught up in themselves that they don't really care how one person feels.  One person wants to lock some people in a room with other people and not let them come out until they have truly, in actuality, worked out their differences.   One person realizes that it is just life for some people to not get along with other people.  But one person doesn't like it, not one bit.  It has been said that one person just needs to grow a pair, or at least get thicker skin.   One person has come a long way in that department, but sometimes one person's pair seems to shrivel up inside and one person's skin becomes as thin as paper.  One person wishes some people could just get along with other people.  One person is sick and tired of some people and other people singing the same damn song, just a new verse.  Sometimes one person wants to disappear.  One person wonders how some people and other people would feel about that!  Maybe then some people would be sorry and find a way to stop this nonsense with other people.  Then perhaps, just perhaps, one person would want to reappear.

37 comments:

Kelly said...

Big hugs, Jason.

Life with Kaishon said...

'Teamwork is the ability to work together toward a common vision. The ability to direct individual accomplishment toward organizational objectives. It is the fuel that allows common people to attain uncommon results.' ~Andrew Carnegie

Since I have no idea what to say, I will just leave a quote!

sybil law said...

One person deserves a vacation with some others that will not bring him down!

Ann said...

Ya. I know. Its so hard sometimes.

Pamela said...

oh, friend.

Jenn @ Juggling Life said...

I think some people are about to be sorry!

TechnoBabe said...

Sounds like one person got a lot off that one person's chest. Whew.

Katy said...

Aye-yi-yi, my head hurts from reading that, I can't imagine living it.

Hugs,
K

C said...

sometimes that person needs to just step out of that circle of confusion and wash his hands and feet of it...

it's called boundaries, honey...

family!! [i presume] you cant live wiff 'em and they dont taste too good BBQ'd [unless as i was told, you marinate them first].

i'm sorry you are going through this.

hugs.. and love to all people involved.


ps

you COULD just slap the shit out of them!!! ;)

Teacher Tom said...

I'm going to imitate Becky and leave a quote too:

"The love of your brother is not comparable to that of smaller animals."

Some of us are better at quotes than others.

Oh sheesh, I have no idea what to say so I'll just send you and hug ((((((((((((Jason)))))))))))))

RawknRobynsGoneBlogWild said...

One person is a clever writer. I hope that some people and other people will just mellow out.
Hang in.
xoRobyn

The Mulligan Family said...

Um... alrighty then! Sounds like one person has their hands full with other peoples problems... and some people should let one person alone to worry about their own life. Oh my! Now you have ME doing it! Hang in there Jason!

Mamma has spoken said...

It's all in perspective isn't it?
It also sounds like my life many a times......

Gary's third pottery blog said...

well, yeah....

Eternal Lizdom said...

Uh.... that's what she said?

Overwhelmingly brilliant.

Mr. Stupid said...

Well, that person needs to get away from those people. And the next time he's caught between crazy folks, he should shout at the top of his voice. That should help.
Great post. Smiles...

The Empress said...

I loved reading this, b/c I know what you're talking about.

Sorry it's happening to you.

Cheri @ Blog This Mom!® said...

Dude. You. Are. Brilliant.

And loved. I love you.

midlifenatalie said...

i love you man.

that's it. that's all.

Hula Girl at Heart said...

Oh, can this one person relate. Click your heels together three times and say, "There's no place like Vegas, there's no place like Vegas....."

big hair envy said...

One person needs a week at the beach. And wine.

Let me know which bottle you want from VV's new Wal-Mart line. I'll send a case. And a possum.

blognut said...

One person has really grown a lot from this difficult situation. This person thinks that sometimes all one person can do is sit back and appreciate that fact while leaving some people and other people to either face their life challenges or continue to hide from them.

American in Bath said...

I've taken one person's advice and grown a pair. I'm still bothered and angry, but I'm also meeting more one persons. And I'm going to try to live my life with them instead.

My thoughts are with you.

Mark said...

Some people work my last Gay nerve.
m.

Ami said...

Some people are a real pain in the ass.

((hugs))

Gillian said...

Some people clearly know what you're talking about, other people have no fucking clue.

Ann T. said...

I agree, someone needs a vacation. Either literally or figuratively.

QCEVO said...

Wow, It's like you have lived my life. de ja vu dude.

David said...

Well said my friend.

SoccerMom said...

WAIT! this is my current life/situation.

How did you know. I have had a hard time with this lately. SO I have taken myself out of the equation and left them to deal with it on their own. Less stressfull for me.

Hang in there

Lori said...

((((Jason))))A hug because I've missed you and visiting you here and because I understand...have known people like this and drives me crazy! God willing I will be back again soon!


Love & hugs, Lori

Ginaagain said...

Oh Jason. One person can only do so much.

foolery said...

THIS person thinks that there's nothing a good peanut butter cookie can't make better. Also, chasing Some People and Other People around the house with a vacuum cleaner.

MWAHHHH! Remember: cookie.

Grandma J said...

Nobody better be picking on Elsa!

AND, who is singing 99 bottles of beer on the wall? I can't stand the fact that there are soooo many verses to that song.

Come to blogfest in VA and we'll sort this out over some whine...I mean wine.

smooches!

Jason, as himself said...

Grandma J, you'll be happy to know that this has nothing whatsoever to do with Elsa. :)

She doesn't even know you, yet you're her biggest advocate. :)

jlo said...

Well, I sure want to know who is who and what is what. Call me!

Katrine said...

Some people need a vacation away from some people. Hang in there!